Dear Arnold,
I
don’t know if you remember me, but I’m daring to reply to your lovely
email to all of us in SJCSZ regarding the 2005 Reunion....a grand affair
that was organized by none other than yourself and your wonderful team,
if I’m not mistaken. Mike and I attended that lovely Reunion in
Toronto. A rare treat, meeting up with so many friends and family from
St. Joseph’s Convent School Zanzibar after so many years. I was so
honoured to have had the privilege of arranging the Reunion Mass that
Sunday morning, and the one in Goa as well in 2008. What blessings!
I
empathize with you when you say you get emotional editing the videos.
‘Emotional’ is a good sign....it bespeaks of a wonderful, caring heart
your dearest parents Arti and Pop Mendes left you and your siblings
with. They were wonderful people, your parents, and everyone who knew
them, loved them too. And, everyone knew how much they loved their
children. ....Equally, friends and relatives who now reside in heaven.
Bless them all.
I hear your expression of the
word, ‘emotional’ , because I too am afflicted with that state of being
emotional, short of sentimental , as I too have experienced a terrible
loss. Mike suddenly, went to heaven on 9th January 2020, due to a
massive heart attack, leaving behind many broken hearts. He loved me, my
family, and my Goan community. Mike was a Canadian of French
extraction. We met in Mombasa, Kenya, and had fifty two wonderful years
together, here in Canada. It’s our memories and photos and videos and
our three children and their families including our six grandchildren
that sustain me and help me cope on my solo flight since 2020. Will our
broken hearts ever be mended? Thus I understand ‘emotional’ too....and
e’en as I hold dear to my heart the memories of the wonderful folks it
was my privilege to know in once upon a time Unguja.
You
too have wonderful memories, and recorded video ones too, to sustain
you and your siblings....memories of unforgettable days in Zanzibar and
in Canada too. Cherish them with all your heart. Arti and Pop have you
covered from heaven. They, together with my Mum and Dad, in the presence
of all our beloved departed, are wowing the angels in heaven with their
tango moves par excellence, as Mike too must be in awe, watching them
dance , perhaps even learning from them to dance the tango, Argentinian
or Portuguese style....in preparation for a big reunion in heaven,
someday....just like the GI dances we once had in Zanzibar and beyond.
Right?
So , until then, cheer up, just as I am
trying my best to do, despite the Covid-19 restrictions. Cheer up also,
all fellow Zanzibaries who have lost loved ones this past year, and
earlier, as we turn every tear into a prayer for our beloved departed.
My heart is with you All.
Songs of the day:-
DON’T WORRY, BE HAPPY! SMILE. .PRETEND ..for “ A SCHOOL THERE IS WHOSE
GIRLS AND BOYS ARE HAPPY AS CAN BE....” let’s sing it together right
now. Ha.
Po-le , na salaams. Dieu borem korun.
God bless and much love to All.
Yvette ........... de Souza-Muise
Just to remind you who we are.....from the 2005 Reunion in Toronto...hint..no talking during a photo shot. Ha.
And this....SJCSZ Reunion in Goa....2008 at the Palmarinha in Calangute.
You’ll know these siblings?.... Mike took this picture.
Sent from my iPad
On May 28, 2021, at 9:17 AM, 'Arnold Mendes' via SJCSZanzibar <sjcszanzibar@googlegroups.com> wrote:
Dear friends of SJCZ
I would like to thank all those who Emailed me with positive comments
of my video postings. I have received many and I will reply to you all soon.
My next posting soon will be the SJC reunion in Toronto in 2005. I get emotional
when I am editing these videos especially when I see so many of my friends who have
passed away not forgetting my Mum and Dad
Enjoy the videos soon
Thanks
Arnold Mendes